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I dont think I’m gonna have Wedding Party!

Siang tadi baru saja membuat rancangan anggaran pernikahan. Man! Mahal banget yah.

Kalau nikah nya di gedung, wedding invitationnya 300 sehingga dana yg dikeluarkan kurang lebih minimal 80 juta. Kalau nikahnya di rumah, wedding invitationnya 600 (soalnya harus ngundang RT sebelah juga) sehingga dana yg dikeluarkan kurang lebih 70 juta.

Fantastic number!

Dan gue pun berpikir, ini gue yg mau nikah knp gue yang repot ya?
Sebetulnya apa sih makna dari wedding party itu? Untuk apa ada wedding party?

Selama gue dateng ke wedding party, ritualnya gitu2 aja. Dateng, kasih angpau atau kado, kasih selamat ke mempelai, ngabisin buffet, pamit, pulang. That’s it! Ya kalau yang kita dtgin partynya itu orgnya cukup dekat, bisalah kita say Hi dulu di ruang dandannya. Tapi kalau ga terlalu kenal ya sudah. Begitu2 aja.

Such a wasted of money ga sih ngeluarin uang hampir 100 juta hanya untuk ritual sederhana begitu?

Setau gue, dulu itu knp harus ada wedding party ya supaya org2 tau kalau si mempelai ini udah menikah. Jadi kalau tinggal bareng ga digrebek deh. Trus kalau hamil ga dibilangin hamil di luar nikah.
Kalau esensinya se simpel itu, gampang dong. Tinggal aja gitu buat pemberitahuan lewat fb twitter path or whatever it is “Hey! I’m married with si Anu loh. Jadi jangan grebek kita ya kalau kita lagi mojok!” Atau bisa as simple ganti status relationship di fb menjadi Married with xxxx.

Tapi kan enggak begitu.

Wedding party ini udah jadi semacam gengsi gitu. Inget party nya sih anaknya Bakrie yang katanya uangnya abis Milyaran?

Tapi once again, untuk apa sih kita adain wedding party? Wedding party itu seharusnya bagaimana? To be honest, gue sih ga rela ngeluarin uang hampir 100 juta cuma buat acara sehari aja. Better gue beli rumah deh!

Jadi inget satu episode di Sex And The City dimana Miranda akhirnya settled down sama pacarnya. Dia menikah di satu taman. Ga ada pesta, cuma pemberkatan dari pendetanya. Orang2 yang dateng juga cuma org2 terdekat mereka aja. Sederhana dan personal banget.

Nah, mungkin gak sih gue cuma ngadain wedding party di KUA aja? Cuma dinikahkan sama ustadz di depan para saksi. Terus makan2 bentar. Asal jangan dianggap hamil di luar nikah aja.

It’s not only about the budget, but it also about the objective, the essential.
We should not waste our money for something less meaningful.

Love. @seritaro_

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poor medicine

My boss is kind of people who will not bother her illness until she really can’t get up from bed. She will come to office though she sick, unless her sickness make her dying. Literally.

And I feel so ashame if I absent just because faringitis or influenza strike me.
Even though those sickness is literally killing me. Mix of fever, sore throat, dizzy and stomach cramp. I obviously can’t bear that!! I even lost my appetite!

So, yesterday I finally search for cold medicine. (FYI, I almost never have medicine in my life!!).

This medicine I took is mix of Paracetamol, PPA, GG and CTM. Within 15 minutes my fever start to chillin down. Within 30 minutes I felt like my heart bouncing to random dirrection. I though it beat almost 100 times per minute. I can’t sleep. I’m afraid if I’m having heart attack.

I try to calm my self down by doing yoga breathing. It worked.

This is what I hate about medicine. Medicine would not cure your illness, it relieve your illness symptom. Even worse, it will cause incovinience adverse effect.
If you see warning inside cold medicine package, there are a lot of creepy warning.

That’s why I avoid to take medicine.
I will never ever take any cold medicine!

Love. @seritaro_

This is the reason why i never keep my old friend

Old Friend : a person you used to know, exist in your social media, who will pretend you’re invisible in daily basis, but will post negative comment for you every time you make mistake. #urbandictionary

Old Friend : too far to care, close enough to judge #urbandictionary

I have posted so many story of my life. I have new job. My dad’s died. My wedding being canceled. None of those story were commented from my old ‘friend’. Even when my father died, I have almost zero condolence from them who told themselves as my ‘old friend’.

But, every time I posted my ‘new picture’ I always get negative comments. Judgemental comment. For God Sake, that’s not even a naked photograph!

And I just feel like where the hell are you? WHO THE HELL ARE YOU ‘FRIEND’?!

Most of people only care for people’s mistake. They will be there watching you falling. Pointing their fucking finger at you. But, when you need helps, they will pretend as you’re invisible. Yeah you know, Old Friend. This is the reason why I never keep my ‘old friend’ close to mine.

Love. @seritaro_

random

When I was a kid, being outspoken is a gift. Today being outspoken made you being judged.

The cruelest judgemental is that come from your loved ones.
The one you love with all your heart.
The one who made you willing to do anything for them.

Bad things about people is we always focus on what other people lacking. While each of people created by their own uniqueness.

It’s not wrong to be different.
It’s wrong to judge people who are different.

Life without judgemental could be so beautiful. Because judgement lead you to hurtful heart, sorrow, and of course hatred.

Unless you have walk in somebody’s path, you’re not allowed to judge what they’re already did.

Judge less, care more.

Love. @seritaro_